Sunday, October 31, 2010

Parents and Safety


When the parents think about their children's safety, the last thing he or she thinks about is the dangers that may be lurking on Internet social network sites. Today's children can navigate social network sites such as, FaceBook and My Space with much more ease than most adults. I know of at least three times just this week alone that I had to ask my twelve year old son how to work the privacy setting on my FaceBook account.

According to ten parents that I surveyed this week, most children spend an abundant amount of hours each week on these social network sites, talking to others that he or she believe are the same age and have similar interest such as, going to the same school or various other places around town. The truth is, most times the child is talking to who their supposed to be, however, there are cases where children may be talking to strangers, and the child may feel safe and willing to answer any questions they may be asked, no matter how personal the question may be. For example, Tina, one of the parents I surveyed, twelve year old daughter was instant messaging (IM) on FaceBook, who she believed to be her friend, and later found out it was his mother trying to get information about her son.

This is one situation that workout safely in the end, but it could have had a very different ending if she would have been talking to a pedophile, kidnapper or murder. Parents are almost always aware of where their children go, and with whom, when he or she leaves home. As parents we should also take the same approach with our children when he or she are on any Internet social network sites.
Sources
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C, john. Personal Interview. 30 October 2010.
C, Virginia. Personal Interview. 30 October 2010.
E, Debbie. Personal Interview. 28 October 2010.
E, Phyllis. Personal Interview. 30 October 2010.
H, Amy. Personal Interview. 28 October 2010.
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P, Jennifer. Personal Interview. 28 October 2010.
P, Jimmy. Personal Interview. 28 October 2010.
Picture Source
Balaraman, Arvind. School Kid. Web. 31 October 2010. http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/Children_g112-School_Kid_p12098.html

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Intro of social networks



A lot of people today, like to chat with friends or meet new people that share the same interest using today’s social networks. Many people now live on their profiles created online, they post new things every hour, expressing how they feel, what they are doing and putting new pictures. What they don’t realize that once something goes online, it’s going to stay there where people can view it. What people aren’t aware of is that it isn’t safe to be socializing with people online because people don’t know who they are really talking to or end up being. Social network are dangerous because people can lie, mislead or even hurt people emotionally and physically. For example, Megan Meier was a thirteen year old girl who became a victim to a predator and committed suicide on November 2007. She committed suicide because one of her friend’s mom wanted to hurt her for hurting her daughter so she posed as a boy interested in her and mislead her into thinking they were in love and later crushed her dreams by saying he did not love her and humiliated her. The mom stated “she wanted to get Megan to feel like she was liked by a boy and let everyone know this was false in MySpace and have everyone laugh at her” (Pokin). An innocent life was lost and many more have been lost because people have hurt them emotionally or posed false information causing them to feel insignificant and not worthy of living. Cyber bullying is a new topic that has emerged due to social networks. Students go online and write mean statements about each other. Some students may take this aggression seriously and cause them to believe the statements and in return hurt themselves or the bullying. Cyber bullying Research Center states that 40% of United State kids have being teased, harassed and tormented online by their peers (Sparano). Social Networks were created for people to be able to reconnect with past friends and meet new but social networks have become dangerous because people misuse it to hurt each other.
Sources:
Pokin, Steve. “Pokin Around: A real person, a real death.” Stcharlesjournal.stltoday.com.
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Sparano, Nina. “Cyberbullying affects 40 percent of kids.”Chicagotribune.com. 5 October 2010. Web. 16 October 2010.
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Sfantoo. “Virtual Suicide.” Prabaharan.wordpress.com. Web. 17 October. 2010.